"Christians divorce at roughly the same rate as the world!"
It's one of the most quoted stats by Christian leaders today. And it's perhaps one of the most inaccurate.
At bottom, it is used to explain that Christians are not doing well
in living out their faith. But it could also be taken as a statement
that redemption by and real discipleship under Jesus makes no real
difference when it comes to marriage. But mainstream sociologists would
tell us that taking one's faith very seriously---in word and
deed---does indeed make a marked positive difference in the health and
longevity of marriage. Based on the best data available, the divorce
rate among Christians is significantly lower than the general
population.
Here's the truth...
People who seriously practice a traditional religious faith---whether
Christian or other---have a divorce rate markedly lower than the
general population.
The factor making the most difference is religious commitment and practice.
What appears intuitive is true. Couples who regularly practice any
combination of serious religious behaviors and attitudes---attend church
nearly every week, read their bibles and spiritual materials regularly;
pray privately and together; generally take their faith seriously,
living not as perfect disciples, but serious disciples---enjoy significantly lower divorce rates than mere church members, the general public, and unbelievers.
Professor Bradley Wright, a sociologist at the University of
Connecticut, explains from his analysis of people who identify as
Christians but rarely attend church, that 60 percent of these have been
divorced. Of those who attend church regularly, 38 percent have been
divorced.[1]
Other data from additional sociologists of family and religion
suggest a substantial marital stability divide between those who take
their faith seriously and those who do not.
W. Bradford Wilcox, a leading sociologist at the University of
Virginia and director of the National Marriage Project, finds from his
own analysis that "active conservative Protestants" who regularly attend
church are 35 percent less likely to divorce compared to those who have no affiliation. Nominally attending conservative Protestants are 20 percent more likely to divorce, compared to secular Americans.[2]
The following chart shows the relative risk of divorce by religious
affiliation among Protestant, Catholic, and Jewish adherents. (Wilcox
controlled for other socio-economic factors that impact marital health,
thus providing a clearer, cleaner measure of the actual religious
dynamic on marriage.)
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